{"id":600,"date":"2015-08-09T20:11:13","date_gmt":"2015-08-10T01:11:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/old.maryology.com\/?p=600"},"modified":"2015-08-09T20:59:03","modified_gmt":"2015-08-10T01:59:03","slug":"things-i-will-miss-about-cpe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/maryology.com\/?p=600","title":{"rendered":"Things I will miss about CPE"},"content":{"rendered":"

I’ve been both poetic and snarky\u00a0about\u00a0my summer as a hospital chaplain. There are some things about it that I will not miss at all<\/a>. But for the most part, it has been an amazing experience for which I am deeply grateful. So, in no particular order, here are the things that have made my summer wonderful:<\/p>\n

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Lee Ann, Megan, JP, Henry, Susan, Mike, Nadine, and me.<\/p><\/div>\n

Did I say no particular order? That goes for the end of the list, but number one in all respects is my team<\/strong>! We are seven interns and one supervisor. Among us are many lifetimes of experience – a former federal judge, retired nurse, social worker – all focused on sitting with whoever needed a shoulder to lean on or an ear to listen. I learned from each and every one of them how to be a better pastor and a better person. We’ve been with each other through grief, struggle, frustration, joy, and relief. We had a lot of fun and every member of the team knows that a sense of humor is the number one survival skill in stressful jobs. A sense of humor and hot cookies (see below).<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>I am about to be a student again, and after that get on the lowest rung of the church ladder to start a new career. So pardon me if one of the things I will miss from this summer is the power trip of my badge<\/strong>. With this baby, I could swipe my way into three emergency rooms, gain access to the highly secure NICU, and, most important, get a 10% discount at the cafeteria – that’s 10% off every slice of pie and cake I had while on call. And 10% off hot cookies.<\/p>\n

Nurses.<\/strong> Sure, I’m impressed with the doctors, clinical assistants and social workers I met this summer, but I was blown away by every single nurse with whom I worked. They all did more than attend to the health of their patients – I saw them cry with parents who lost a child, hold hands with dying patients, negotiate with families in conflict, and have conversations with premature babies. If a chaplain shows up unexpectedly in the middle of a crisis, you can bet it was a nurse who made the call. Even at the end of a 12-hour shift, these women and men can still keep their cool in an emergency and soothe a child visiting a sick parent.<\/p>\n

I’m going to miss my patients and their families<\/strong>. In some units, patients are only there for a day or two, but in my units (antepartum and NICU) there are patients and families who have been in the hospital all summer long. I’ve gotten to know them and see them thru that strange mix of anxiety and hope that is part of high-risk pregnancies and birth. I “met” some babies before they were born. After I leave, they will still be working hard at what babies do – learning to eat, getting bigger and stronger. I won’t know how they are doing or when they go home, but I won’t be able to stop imagining it…All of them have blessed me tremendously.<\/p>\n

Honestly, I have never worked in a place with so many polite and friendly people.<\/strong>\u00a0Every single one of them will offer you directions if you look the slightest bit lost. Nurse, administrator, janitor – doesn’t matter. You cannot go down a hallway without smile after smile after “how are you today?” And if you choose to answer, they will stop and listen. It is contagious and I hope I stay infected.<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>Y’all, I may never be able to work anywhere ever again that does not have hot cookies<\/strong> at least once a week. Huge-as-your-face hot cookies. And co-workers who page you so that you don’t miss out on the yumminess.<\/p>\n

I love the theological discussions<\/strong> that happen in seminary – in class and on the fly – but the discussions in CPE have been different. We weren’t talking about theological concepts in a vacuum, isolated from real life, we were living through applied theology. Where is God in the midst of suffering? How do you find hope in a trying situation? What resources help people cope with stress? Or…How can I be more “there” for other people? How do I better identify their needs? How can I stop trying to fix people and just be with them?<\/p>\n

To my colleagues, my babies, the nurses, and the cookies: Thanks so much from the bottom of my heart.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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